In a heartfelt observance of International Girl Child Day, Mrs. Kehinde Ajala, Chairperson of the Odiolowo Ojuwoye Local Council Development Area (LCDA), passionately articulated the significance of nurturing and supporting young girls as they transition into adulthood.
The event themed, Girl’s Vision For the Future; Personal Development And Hygiene’ was held on Friday October 25, 2024, at the Auditorium Hall Of Odi Olowo Ojuwoye Lcda.
The programme was championed and powered by Alhaja Ajala Kenny, the Chairperson of Odi-Olowo Ojuwoye.
Speaking at the event, Ajala highlighted the indispensable role that mothers play in the upbringing of their children.
She stated, “The role of mothers is to raise the child. While I understand the demands of work, it is crucial not to let your professional obligations overshadow your responsibilities at home. Ultimately, it is your children that you look up to.”
She emphasized the importance of being present and intentional in parenting, asserting that true success as a parent is gauged by the quality of the relationship one fosters with their children: “For me, where I come from, if you haven’t built a bond with your children, then you haven’t accomplished anything. You must remain a constant presence in their lives.”
Discipline and personal growth were pivotal themes in her address.
Ajala encouraged young girls to cultivate the ability to discern right from wrong, stressing the importance of determination and focus. “Discipline is essential. It is vital to instill in them the understanding of what is right and wrong; with God, everything will align in their personal development,” she remarked, urging young girls to remain intentional, reject negative influences, and continuously enhance their skills.
Reflecting on community values, Ajala advocated for a revival of communal parenting, wherein collective responsibility enhances child-rearing practices.
“We must return to a model of communal parenting, where the parent of one child can guide and discipline another,” she proposed, fostering a supportive network for child development.
Additionally, Ajala addressed the pervasive impact of the internet and media, advocating for moderation and mindful engagement.
“We must continue to remind them that while the internet and media play significant roles in our lives, it is essential to approach them with caution. Excess of anything can be detrimental,” she cautioned, using the analogy of food seasoning to illustrate her point.