A very dear elder brother of mine has been bedridden for months, and this has profoundly affected me. I’ve lost interest in many things, particularly virtual social engagements.
During this challenging period, my most active WhatsApp line was hacked, and I couldn’t retrieve it. Although I have since secured a replacement number, my foremost concern remains the health of my ailing brother. I earnestly pray for his recovery, as he is irreplaceable.
Recently, a childhood friend and elder brother completed his Ph.D. from Babcock University, which briefly lifted my spirits and prompted me to re-engage socially. However, I failed to maintain that momentum and missed the opportunity to celebrate another dear uncle’s birthday. In hindsight, I regret not sharing in the joy of that significant milestone, and I acknowledge that I have faltered.
As I considered informing Egbon Dele Farotimi about my recent silence and distance, I noticed a melancholic symbol on his status—a well-lit candle against a black background. Before I could reach out to him, social media were already flooded with tributes to the departed soul, Baba Adesina Ogunlana.
Baba Ogunlana was known for his unwavering commitment to his principles, often standing alone against the tide. I witnessed on several occasions how he faced humiliation and maltreatment from colleagues who resented his audacity to challenge the status quo.
Despite our occasional ideological differences, my respect and admiration for him never wavered. It is a testament to the fact that learned individuals need not always agree but can still maintain mutual respect and solidarity.
Baba wa Ogunlana, I am deeply disappointed in myself for allowing my current state of mind to overshadow my actions. Missing the opportunity to publicly celebrate your 60th birthday has left me with a profound sense of regret.
Your untimely passing has only magnified this feeling. I am not one to amplify condolences over celebrations, yet here we are, and I must admit that I have faltered.
I want to honour the memory of Baba wa Adeshina Ogunlana. You came, you saw, and you conquered. Your legacy will forever inspire those who had the privilege of knowing you.
Adieu, Baba wa Adeshina Ogunlana.
