Nigerian comedian Ayo Makun, famously known as AY, and his wife Mabel have announced their separation after 16 years of marriage. The comedian took to his Instagram on Sunday to address the situation, shedding light on the personal challenges that led to this decision.
AY shared his thoughts on the matter, expressing his stance on not divulging intimate family matters to the public eye any longer. In a poignant message, he articulated, “Many people believe that staying silent simply means that one is incapable of dealing with issues. Projecting a negative narrative against someone who is not struggling to defend himself doesn’t mean he is weak.”
He acknowledged the difficulty of balancing personal struggles with public exposure, especially considering his grown-up daughter’s presence on social media and the need to safeguard her mental well-being.
Addressing the complexities of their marriage, AY revealed, “Without compromising my family, I have found myself doing some things that I am not proud of today.”
He lamented the loss of a friendship and a 20-year-long marriage while highlighting the challenges of navigating blame in a society that often portrays women as perpetual victims.
Meanwhile, Mabel also took to her Instagram to hint at her response to the situation, emphasizing a newfound approach to handling disrespect by distancing herself from drama. She stated, “Distance is my new response to disrespect. I don’t react, I don’t argue. I don’t dive into the drama. I just remove myself.”
AY and Mabel tied the knot in November 2008 and are parents to two children. Their separation has captured public attention, with fans expressing both support and curiosity regarding the reasons behind the split.
The revelation has sparked discussions on the challenges of maintaining relationships in the public eye and the delicate balance between personal struggles and public scrutiny. AY’s decision to step away from divulging private matters reflects a growing trend among public figures seeking to protect their families from undue attention.
